THIS book. If you are even questioning whether or not to buy it, BUY. IT. As I read this book, I feel like I am sitting on the couch having a chat with my best friend. She writes in a way to make you feel comfortable enough to step out of the darkness of your background you try to hid in. You don’t have to stay stuck. In the very beginning she says, “I don’t know about you, but I talk to enough women today to know that this is a place where many of us are living. Trapped in our past. Hidden deep inside our secrets. Defeated by our struggles. The sum total of our depressing parts. Pretending, not empowered. Fake, not free.” I think all of us carry the weight of our struggles and we don’t have to. She writes in such a way to make you WANT TO share and be free from the fake lives we are trying to hard to live.